loving in relationship. Transformation of oneself in relation to one’s spouse is the ultimate grindstone on which marriage is sharpened. Each spouse is challenged to round off the rough edges and fill out the flat sides to make a more complete person. It takes determination to proceed in the direction of “two becoming one” because it requires putting the best interest of the other and the relationship in the forefront. A human tendency is to protect oneself from the vulnerability required to become
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